Love Me, Love Me, Love Me, Fuck You
A while ago I talked about love misconception and where not to look for it.
I see problems and frustration about people like and talk to a person they wan to be with. I see them failing at starting the relationships and giving them up, which might be the right thing to do. Because you should never try to convince someone of who you are and what do you believe in. People cry over the friendzone, even though it wouldn't work out how you imagined it to work. Nothing does, nothing will work with that kind of precision when it comes to relationships. Still we fight our way through flirts, we prize ourselves to impress someone that will hurt us in the long run. We take risks for believing and giving our love to those that are not worthy of it and cry even more after it ends.
We fight for love without tears and dreams that make us feel alive. The loneliness makes us vulnerable and naive so we crave and search and search. We are jealous and afraid of losing what we have through time and time. The understanding of our feeling is unclear, because we want everything that isn't ours or we think we need when everything we need is right in front of our faces. Searching for that something special and that amazing sex to make us escape the bad days and losing everything that is real. In a bubble of perfect. We want to be somewhere to go forever when we need it.
But when it comes to someone liking us, we say no for the first time. Being afraid that it's too soon and want to know more about that person. So the first week passes by with you two talking, and there's the first no at your attempt to meet. After another amazing week you get the feeling that you two like each other and there's the second maybe. You know you have to be patient and wait, convincing yourself that this is going to be perfect and it will work. So another two week pass, you understand what she has to do, she's busy. And then you ask the third time and there's the third response saying maybe sometimes. You start doubting yourself and if this is right, what if you're just an option and not the priority. So time passes again and you ask, because you know she has the time this time. And she says again no, you are now confused, everything she says doesn't make any sense no more. So you say fuck you, because you are feeling like a second option and that's not how you should be. No one should be and you depart yourself from her.
It's hard no matter what, and it's painful. But it might be the right thing, you should be a priority when someone likes you and you like them back. So never stop for someone to like you back.
I see problems and frustration about people like and talk to a person they wan to be with. I see them failing at starting the relationships and giving them up, which might be the right thing to do. Because you should never try to convince someone of who you are and what do you believe in. People cry over the friendzone, even though it wouldn't work out how you imagined it to work. Nothing does, nothing will work with that kind of precision when it comes to relationships. Still we fight our way through flirts, we prize ourselves to impress someone that will hurt us in the long run. We take risks for believing and giving our love to those that are not worthy of it and cry even more after it ends.
We fight for love without tears and dreams that make us feel alive. The loneliness makes us vulnerable and naive so we crave and search and search. We are jealous and afraid of losing what we have through time and time. The understanding of our feeling is unclear, because we want everything that isn't ours or we think we need when everything we need is right in front of our faces. Searching for that something special and that amazing sex to make us escape the bad days and losing everything that is real. In a bubble of perfect. We want to be somewhere to go forever when we need it.
But when it comes to someone liking us, we say no for the first time. Being afraid that it's too soon and want to know more about that person. So the first week passes by with you two talking, and there's the first no at your attempt to meet. After another amazing week you get the feeling that you two like each other and there's the second maybe. You know you have to be patient and wait, convincing yourself that this is going to be perfect and it will work. So another two week pass, you understand what she has to do, she's busy. And then you ask the third time and there's the third response saying maybe sometimes. You start doubting yourself and if this is right, what if you're just an option and not the priority. So time passes again and you ask, because you know she has the time this time. And she says again no, you are now confused, everything she says doesn't make any sense no more. So you say fuck you, because you are feeling like a second option and that's not how you should be. No one should be and you depart yourself from her.
It's hard no matter what, and it's painful. But it might be the right thing, you should be a priority when someone likes you and you like them back. So never stop for someone to like you back.
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